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        <![CDATA[ Can you guess what it is?


The &quot;ultimate singer&#39;s dilemma&quot; is that all the problems he or she is trying to fix are created by him or her! So it&#39;s quite literally
impossible to fix your singing problems from the place you stand in. This is why awareness is so important - the idea is to SEE what you are doing that&#39;s
keeping you stuck. This is why a voice teacher can be such a great help.


Tighten you fist. Tighten real hard. That&#39;s most likely what you are doing when... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: The ultimate singer's dilemma  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ LOL! Thanks for the laugh Guffe! Yeah, the spiritual guy stereotype.
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I&#39;m so ordinary and human you would be shocked.
<br>
Thanks for the laugh again <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: The ultimate singer's dilemma  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We are not in control, period. That&#39;s the experience I have, and the what I find to be more honest. So the answer to your question is no. Surrender is only
true when it&#39;s 100%.
<br>
<br>
There is absolutely no sense of &quot;I&#39;m doing it&quot; or &quot;I&#39;m choosing it&quot; or &quot;I&#39;m controlling it.&quot; Not in my experience.
There is no sense of accomplishment or anything like that either. It&#39;s more supernatural feeling.
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I know this is esoteric, but... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 23:09:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: The ultimate singer's dilemma  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">musiciano wrote:</strong>
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  We are not realized as singers or as people as long as we have this notion that we are &quot;in control.&quot; The simple truth is we are not.
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<br>
<br>
Maybe this could be a misunderstanding between us, but is it not possible to be in control while still surrendering control at the same time? ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: The ultimate singer's dilemma  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Cuno, that&#39;s a very tricky question to answer because I pretty much don&#39;t get attached to any of my views anymore. There was a shift that (apparently)
occurred in my life where I found myself free from my points of view. Nothing is really fixed and locked in within me anymore. A view or a thought can only
attach to my consciousness for a very short time.
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I understand what you are saying about taking charge and all that, and I think it is true. But I think in life we... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Oh WOW. I just realized that the original post in this thread was 7 months old, lol. Musiciano, would you still agree with your viewpoint that you held in your
original post, or could it possibly have changed a bit? ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">leonetha wrote:</strong>
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  My &quot;inner wisdom&quot; or whatever regarding vocal training..not that i have really...knowledge in vocal training... but i get good info useing the
  techniques found in the book &quot;Conversations With God&quot; by Neale Donald Walsch.
  <br>
  <br>
  This helps me more than anything because its very individual, what you need to do in order to sing better.
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<br>
I have to echo these... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">leonetha wrote:</strong>
  <hr>

  <blockquote>
    <strong class="quote-title">confused wrote:</strong>
    <hr>
    you two should sing a duet together, good philosophical chemistry <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/embarassed.gif" alt="image">
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  <br>
  <br>
  LOL yeah!!
  <br>
  <br>
  Where is Josh? He could join us!
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I&#39;ll see if I can find him. <img... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">confused wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  you two should sing a duet together, good philosophical chemistry <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/embarassed.gif" alt="image">
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LOL yeah!!
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Where is Josh? He could join us! ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 16:13:54 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: The ultimate singer's dilemma  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Musiciano knows what he&#39;s talking about. I listened to what he said a couple years back and just stopped trying to control so much when I vocalized. That
alone improved my voice so much. And by that, I mean I was able to sing with little tension. Singing became a lot more natural to me. I won&#39;t lie. I had a
lot of doubts before trying it, but it made a lot of sense to me the more I read his posts. I haven&#39;t been practicing as much since then due to personal
matters but I&#39;m now... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2008 17:42:36 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ you should go out to eat with Wendy. same taste in food.
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<br>
and hangout with Ronald. same clown thing going on.
<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 16:57:41 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ what is philosophy? i&#39;m serious, i&#39;m curious.
<br>
<br>
it SEEMS to me like the truth is equated with philosophy nowadays. maybe that has something to do with the mess. maybe?
<br>
<br>
for example if i said: you can&#39;t know what will happen tomorrow. is that philosophy? or is it just the truth?
<br>
<br>
if i said all poor singing is due to imbalance. is that philosophy? or is it just the truth?
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i don&#39;t know that i&#39;m getting the point across here. but, who cares?... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ you two should sing a duet together, good philosophical chemistry <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/embarassed.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">musiciano wrote:</strong>
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  . It is SO NICE to see you speaking up for yourself.
  <br>
  You are a lovely young lady and I am very happy for you. - <img src="http://static.yuku.com//domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/roll.gif" alt="image"> <img src="http://static.yuku.com//domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/embarassed.gif" alt="image">
</blockquote>lol. no one called me &quot;lady&quot; b4....lol...i feel like a !$%+%!@ tomboy...most of the... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 03:38:24 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I just want to add -- Keep following your voice, your inner wisdom. Take what rings true with you, if any, and dump the rest. It is SO NICE to see you speaking
up for yourself. You are a lovely young lady and I am very happy for you. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2008 16:40:01 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Well what a nice and lovely way to put it. You are SPOT ON! <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif">
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Really. <img src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif"> I couldn&#39;t have put it better myself.
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">musiciano wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  At the end of the day, it&#39;s all about what you&#39;re left with. 
  <br>
  <strong>yes this is what i mean
  <br>
  <br></strong> The are a so many things you can do to sing better -- I&#39;ve just found for myself that NONE of them work.<strong>for you<img height="15" src="http://www.ezboard.com/images/emoticons/smile.gif" width="15" alt="image"></strong> I guess I&#39;m just trying to point you to a place of... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Well, I understand what you are saying. And everything you are saying is true. At the end of the day, it&#39;s all about what you&#39;re left with. I am not
telling you what to DO, nor do I have any interest in doing so. There is enough of that out there and if you want to know what to DO you can find that just
about anywhere. Ask someone else. The are a so many things you can do to sing better -- I&#39;ve just found for myself that NONE of them work. I guess I&#39;m
just trying to point you... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ you say that i shoudl stop doing whatever. but geting the approac hof stopping doing somehting - you see- the fact that i think stopping doing something - i
WILL do somehtig else intead. When you teel some1 &quot;stop trying too hard&quot; i guess that you can have a few resolts.
<br>
<br>
IN YOUR HEAD - yes, all it is is trying too hard. But afterwads - when the actions of &quot;stop trying so hard&quot; is done physically  it can resolt in
different acitons, and they can be radicaly the... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Can you guess what it is?
<br>
<br>
The &quot;ultimate singer&#39;s dilemma&quot; is that all the problems he or she is trying to fix are created by him or her! So it&#39;s quite literally
impossible to fix your singing problems from the place you stand in. This is why awareness is so important - the idea is to SEE what you are doing that&#39;s
keeping you stuck. This is why a voice teacher can be such a great help.
<br>
<br>
Tighten you fist. Tighten real hard. That&#39;s most likely what... ]]></description>

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